Only great sorrow or great joy can reveal your truth.
If you would be revealed you must either dance naked in the sun, or carry your cross.
Monday, July 30, 2007
Sunday, July 29, 2007
daily venture
Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need.
No man can draw the line between necessities and luxuries. Only the angels can do that, an dthe angels are wise and wistful.
No man can draw the line between necessities and luxuries. Only the angels can do that, an dthe angels are wise and wistful.
daily venture
Remembrance is a form of meeting.
Forgetfulness is a form of freedom.
Love and doubt have never been on speaking terms.
Forgetfulness is a form of freedom.
Love and doubt have never been on speaking terms.
Saturday, July 28, 2007
daily venture
How narrow is the vision that exalts the busyness of the ant above the singing of the grasshopper.
Thursday, July 26, 2007
daily venture
The reality of the other person is not in what he reveals to you, but in what he cannot reveal to you, but in what he cannot reveal to you.
Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says but rather to what he does not say.
It more seems like the sense of proportion to deal with women. :)
Therefore, if you would understand him, listen not to what he says but rather to what he does not say.
It more seems like the sense of proportion to deal with women. :)
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
What will you do if the people you care do the things not efficient as you expect?
Such scenario will often occur in every day life: if some one, specail in your life, have to do something or ask you for a favor, however, the way he perofrms or strives is extremely inefficient and annoying, what will you do, especially for the case that you are such a type of people who will think about things for the sake of him and would like him to do the things as you expect?
Maybe through inheritance or personality of full confidence, you might behavior angry or uncomfortable, no matter how great the solution you have contrived for him or how brilliant for the solution itself is, the result would be adverse. Maybe the one you care, in most cases, would be angry,incensed,enraged, for the reason that he means to find comfort or suggestion from you, however, what he gets are full of complain and critical comments or judgmet. Such huge contrast might cause to magnify the feeling of dissatisfaction and result the quarrel or trouble between the two person.
Then we would ask, if all you want to do, starts from the best intent for him, why the result turns out the opposite way? And who should be responsible for it? THe answer is on the way to handle such issue. Maybe for thousand times, you have said to yourself, to be calm, easy, however it always seems to lose control. Is it because you care him so much? Maybe, Is it because you inappropriately compare the way he did with that you might do in you were in his position? Maybe. But the most important reason accounting for the final result is your attitude and the lack of the consciousness to posit yourself on the position of him. Next time, try to use the words - if I were you, I might have done things in such way, not to use your voice or anger to show how disappointed you are.
Maybe through inheritance or personality of full confidence, you might behavior angry or uncomfortable, no matter how great the solution you have contrived for him or how brilliant for the solution itself is, the result would be adverse. Maybe the one you care, in most cases, would be angry,incensed,enraged, for the reason that he means to find comfort or suggestion from you, however, what he gets are full of complain and critical comments or judgmet. Such huge contrast might cause to magnify the feeling of dissatisfaction and result the quarrel or trouble between the two person.
Then we would ask, if all you want to do, starts from the best intent for him, why the result turns out the opposite way? And who should be responsible for it? THe answer is on the way to handle such issue. Maybe for thousand times, you have said to yourself, to be calm, easy, however it always seems to lose control. Is it because you care him so much? Maybe, Is it because you inappropriately compare the way he did with that you might do in you were in his position? Maybe. But the most important reason accounting for the final result is your attitude and the lack of the consciousness to posit yourself on the position of him. Next time, try to use the words - if I were you, I might have done things in such way, not to use your voice or anger to show how disappointed you are.
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